Passion – what is it?
It’s needed to keep relationships alive and healthy. Hell, it’s even required to find a relationship and get it going. Without this fire, there’s no will to keep the sizzle alive in a relationship.
So one would think that this nice sultry burn is pretty damn important. Right?
But when I asked single women and those in a relationship if it was necessary – only 55% said yes! The ladies in a relationship, their answer I only got a 30% yes! YIKES!
Next, I asked, if someone asked you for advice about how to bring passion into his or her life, what would you say?
Here is some of the worst advice:
- It comes naturally. You shouldn’t have to work at it.
- It’s there, or it isn’t.
- Find a new partner.
- Have an affair.
- It means either I no longer love her or she no longer loves me.
- Have sex.
One person – ONE PERSON said that passion took work.
NO ONE said that a single person could have passion in her life. No one!
No wonder passion is absent from so many people’s lives!!
And some of the best advice on passion:
Passion takes work.
Romantic passion needs effort from both parties.
Passion wants you to open up and get turned on.
Sex needs passion, but passion doesn’t need sex.
Passion needs a single person to want it.
The single woman + passion turns her into an attraction magnet.
Passion wants to come out and play — put in the effort!
The next time your relationship (or life if single) is missing that zing of passion – do yourself a favor and add it back in. It can be as simple as a note that says “I want you,” or a bath with blood orange essential oils.